Six With Sticks

by Six Kennedy kids and their parents


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Twas the Night Before Christmas

It has been a tradition since Elizabeth was born that I read to all of the kids on the night before Christmas.  I always read the same version of Twas the Night Before Christmas, by Clement C Moore.  And then we put them to bed.

Well, this year, they have been in anticipation for days leading up to it, and they have found the book and had it out so we don’t have to go hunting for it on Christmas Eve.  But I realized this year that we have 3 little readers in the house now.  And they have been asking for a few years if they can read the book.  I’ve been stubborn and said no.  But this year, I’ve had a change of heart.  And so we took turns …


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The Hobbit

When I was a kid, I used to read lots of books.  I liked science fiction and fantasy, and read a lot of Piers Anthony, and I liked all of JRR Tolkien’s books.  As I was in GT, I had some friends on the nerdy side, like me.  And they liked these books too.  I remember someone’s birthday party in middle school where we watched a marathon of the animated movies of the Lord of the Rings.

Well, in the last decade, Peter Jackson has released movies of all of the Lord of the Rings’ books.  They are awesome.  Marcia and I bought all of the special edition DVDs and we watch them occasionally, most recently on a late Christmas Eve night.

Two weeks ago, Peter Jackson also released The Hobbit in theatres.  Wow!  We haven’t seen it yet, but I had an idea.  A few weeks ago, I went to my parents house and found my old book on the bookshelf in my old room and we started reading it aloud with the kids at night.  I want to read it with them and then go see it in the theater.

Great idea, right?!  Well, clearly some are interested and some are not.  Jack, Luke and Maggie are too young to be interested, but Noah, Eden and Liz are definitely hooked.  When we read in bed, they curl up next to me and hang on every word.  Noah will close his eyes and for ten minutes I’ll think he’s asleep; then I ask him something and he answers and I realize he is intently listening to every word.  Elizabeth and Eden are taking turns with Marcia and me reading aloud to the rest of the family.  And Liz has even taken the book to bed at night and read ahead a few chapters.

A few years ago, I remember a friend telling me that he and his wife read a Harry Potter book to each other, taking turns reading aloud.  I thought it kind of silly at the time, because I had always thought reading a solitary thing, and so many other things Marcia and I liked to do together than read.  But I am really enjoying this.  Not only is it something the whole family is doing together, in the same room and the same focus.  But, we are using oratory skills and listening skills, which once commonplace, are not used as often in today’s society.

I hope we finish before the movie is no longer in theaters.  I am writing this post early in the morning and I hope everyone wants to read when they wake up!


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Christmas with the Kennedys

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The Kennedy Six on Christmas morning

Christmas has come and gone.  Not a lot of drama this year.  Papa Kennedy was released from the hospital a few days earlier from his kidney stone operation.  He learned in the hospital that he is diabetic and had an atrial fibrillation, which was corrected before he was discharged.  And his diet was the only real topic of conversation of any possible drama at the elder Kennedy household.  The siblings have all decided that mom is an enabler, as she keeps bringing him food with sugar in it.  I hear that a diabetic diet is difficult to understand, and clearly mom and dad are struggling with it.  I can see that dad has no idea what he should eat, and I feel his pain on this.  Bob and marcia seem to understand what he should be eating and want to be helpful, but we will all go away in a few days, and mom and dad will need to be able to fend for themselves.

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Coach K on Christmas

Still, despite dad being tired and just released from the hospital, they put on a great holiday for their children and grandchildren.  We all had a great time with each other.  And then the eight of us went to Marcia’s mom’s house and Marcia’s aunt’s house.  I fell asleep on the couch at Marcia’s mom’s house.  I didn’t mean to, and it was awfully rude to do so.  I woke up shortly before we were leaving, and started talking football with Rick.  I really enjoyed talking with Rick and it was just a short visit for me.  I wish I had not been so tired or at least not given into it.  I felt bad, they were expecting lots of guests from his family and from hers, but it was just us, and Bonnie stopped by.  There was lots of leftover food.  Anna Rose left him there to wait to see if his family would post, and came with us to Joan’s.

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Jack’s First Christmas

We had a good old time at Joan’s house.  Pop was very interested in Jack and even held him for a while.  The kids are getting older, almost old enough for the bar games in the basement.  Liz and Noah played foosball and pool!

The kids were very well behaved throughout the day.  And they were helpful.  I am so proud of the way they are acting lately.  I love my job as their father.  Such a wonderful time, Christmas is.  And I intend to use my time off from work to dedicate it just to the family.


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One more day until Disney

Helter skelter week.  Spent two days without power.  Had a flooded basement.  Halloween without Marcia, and without the oldest girls.  Okay, I need to stop right there.

This was the most disappointing Halloween I’ve had.  Made me realize that we probably will not have another Halloween when all of our kids trick or treat together.  Marcia had class.  Since we were out of power and the kids hadn’t showered in a few days, Marcia sent Eden and Liz over to the Baecks to trick or treat with them and spend the night.  They had a great time, but I missed them dearly.

I did have my own fun.  I took Noah, Maggie, Luke and Jack trick or treating around the neighborhood.  They were a lumberjack, kitty cat, choo choo (Thomas) and lion, respectively.  It was very cute to see Luke excitedly run up to each door.  He grabbed candy out of the boxes and he said, “Thank you.”  Noah and Maggie had the most fun.  After hitting our neighborhood, we went over to Joan and Greg’s.

When we got home, the younger ones fell asleep, and Noah wanted to wait up for Liz and Eden.  Our power had come back on, and we had them come home instead of spend the night out.  He waited by the front door for nearly an hour.  He wanted to spend Halloween with his sisters.  He said that he had done that every Halloween.  And he wanted to trade candy with them before he went to bed (gluten free and non-peanut candy).

When the girls got home, Eden traded candy with Noah, and we put them all to bed.  It turned out to be a good Halloween, but nothing like previous ones.

So, okay, enough with my Halloween digression.  We go to Walt Disney World tomorrow.  The crazy week has definitely put a damper on our planning.  One day to go, still lots of laundry to do and lots of packing.  It will be a whirlwind.  Since we’re driving, I will need a good night’s sleep tonight.  We count on Marcia to do most of this, and she has an exam tomorrow morning before we leave.  I hope we get everything done in time.  Because we’ve been looking forward to this vacation for many months.


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For the love of the game

I played last night with the Baltimore Wild.  Before the game, I was exhausted, had left work, went straight to field hockey practice, and then home from practice by 7:45, with a lacrosse game at 8:00.  Hadn’t eaten and had a headache.  I didn’t really feel like going, but strapped it on and left the house.

The Baltimore Wild is an offshoot of the Baltimore Lacrosse Club and is a Masters team (35+) started by John Heiland.  He’s done a good job of assembling some pretty chill guys, not many head cases.  Not the most talented of rosters, but an enjoyable sideline.  I’m really liking being a part of this team.  Most especially, I enjoy playing with Kris Lindh, one of my best friends from childhood that I lost touch with over the years.  Just a great person, and really fun to be playing with him.

So, last night.  We won, 7-3!  And I did well.  2 goals and 4 assists.  Kris assisted one of my goals and I assisted one of his.  And the guys appreciated having me on the team.

We’re not competing for anything but the love of the game.  Told Kris I’ll be back next week.  And I’m looking forward to it.


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Eden is a runner

Eden and I ran this morning at 6:15.  It was maybe the hardest I’ve ever seen Eden run.  I think she was properly motivated.  Something had to do with maybe me setting a time goal for her and for not letter her give up.

Eden has also become quite the laxer as well.  She scores at will in her Tyker league.  She probably should have made the travel team.  At least we didn’t complain.  Her she is doing the draw against her friend, Neve.


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Liz hits double digits

Elizabeth turned 10 on Friday.  Marcia’s quote on Facebook:

Ten years ago today I met the determined little lady that made me a Mommy. She is still living her life with that same fierce determination that brought her into this world. Tell her she can’t and she will show you five ways she can. We are so proud of you Liz. Your large family loves you so much. Stay determined the world is filled with endless possibilities. Happy Birthday!

I couldn’t have stated this better.  Determination = Elizabeth.  Have you ever met a kid who has been denied more times but keeps proving everyone wrong?  And doing so with grace and humility.  I’m proud, and also impressed that my daughter has some qualities that I have lost in myself.  Such as humility … I have to brag on the kids all the time.  I don’t like braggards, but I see so many mediocre kids have been put ahead of my kids because they have been hyped so much by their parents, yet aren’t as worthy as mine.  So, I’m going to brag on my 10 year old.

She’s become quite the draw girl in lacrosse.  She pulls the ball.  Here she is against Perry Hall, she scored 4 in this game.

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Liz in a 12-5 victory over Perry Hall.

On her Redshirts team, she is a 4th grader playing against 5th and 6th graders.  Two weeks ago, we lost to a RGLC 2018 team (6th graders), 17-10.  Liz scored 4 goals, including the last goal of the game as time expired, never quit, although she was the smallest girl on the field.  Marcia and I are so proud.

Tonight, she wrote an essay for the principal at Hillcrest in order to be a safety next year.  Her essay was on responsibility and being a role model.  Here is what she wrote:

Dear Mrs. McVey,

Please consider me for the school safety position for next year.  I would be happy to be any of the safety positions, but I am most interested in being one of the safeties that takes care of the kindergarteners.  I like taking care of little kids because they are cute, funny and they make me smile.  I would like to be a good role model for them.  I care about safety and following rules, and I think I will make an excellent school safety.

One of the qualities that I think is important in a safety is responsibility.  I show responsibility at home and at school.  At home, I am the oldest of six children.  I help my mother with my younger brothers and sisters all the time.  Everywhere we go, I help get them in the car and put their seatbelts on.  I also help with chores, like making their lunches in the morning or helping them at bath time.  I have a younger brother and sister at school, and I make sure they get to where they are supposed to be before and after school.  At school, I volunteer for the jobs that nobody likes to do, like the janitor.  I think it is important to have a clean classroom.  At school, I am responsible for myself and my schoolwork.  For example, I always turn my homework in on time, and my library books are never overdue.

I think it is important that school safeties are role models for the rest of the school.  I think I would make a good role model.  I am always on good behavior.  In class, I have always been on green.  I am quiet and I always follow the rules.  I am hard working and determined.  Because of that, I am a GT student and have earned straight As.  I also model good behavior at home and work equally hard at sports, including lacrosse, field hockey, basketball and swim team.

For these reasons, I think I would be a responsible and patient school safety.  I hope you agree with me.  I have wanted to be a safety since I was in 2nd grade, and I hope that you pick me.  Thank you for considering me.

Sincerely,

Elizabeth Kennedy

As much as I am proud of her, I also am fearful that she will be denied something again by adults.  I’m just so used to it at this point that it is discouraging.  I told her tonight that all we can do is try our hardest at everything, and if others don’t notice or pick us, that is their problem; just as long as we know that we have done our best, that is all we can ask.