Six With Sticks

by Six Kennedy kids and their parents


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Sandy is trying to keep us down

As I climb into bed, the blinking lights out front from BGE’s standby man, Larry’s generator humming, and planes flying overhead every 6 minutes, I pause to reflect on the day.

Actually, I should start the tale with yesterday.  Sandy dumped a ton of rain on us.  We stayed indoors all day.  By midday, our back yard and woods were swamps and pools.  I had to go outside once or twice to fix the gutters during the afternoon.  All in all, we were holding up well.

By the evening, small amounts of water started seeping in the basement.  Eden and I stayed ahead of it for a few hours with a wet vac.  By 9, it was clear that the ground was saturated and we started to lose the battle with mother nature.  The telling sign was when water began bubbling up from cracks in the floor as if from a natural spring.  Still we soldiered on.  At around 10, Eden was way in the back room when the power went out.  She wad a little freaked, but found me in the dark.  We all went upstairs and showered and went to bed.

I became a little nervous, so brought Noah and Maggie into bed with us to ride out the storm.  In the morning, Marcia cooked eggs and bacon on the gas stove.  We assessed the basement … totally flooded.

Rap, rap, rap on the door.  Ian and Kerry Rathmell stopped by.  Offered us freezer space.  Also pointed out why our power was out.

A few more neighbors came by, the Marions and Blair’s.  And then we were off to hunt for coffee.

After Starbucks met our craving, we started in on the basement.  I will not mention the trips to the hardware store or all the mishaps getting started.

But, by 1:30, we started pumping out the basement, pulling power from Larry’s generator.  Eden helped the whole time and Noah and Liz helped as well.  By 3:30, we had pumped 1136 gallons of water from the basement.  Then we swept the floor clean.

While in the backroom, we came across the Halloween decorations.  Got in the mood and decorated.  Then got dinner at Chick Fil A. 

On the way home, we found out that Liz has a presentation due tomorrow.  No power or internet, we went to my office.  Didn’t get home til 11:40.  We were greeted home by the BGE standby guy and a lot of red caution tape.

It had been a long day.  And a challenging one.  The things we need to do tomorrow are not reasonable.  And the days to prepare for Disney World are slim.  But we’re weathering it.  And everyone is holding up just fine.  No ‘woah is me’  here.  Everyone pitching in as a family and not complaining.

For the most part, I can handle this.  The only thing wearing on me is the inability to take a hot shower.  Gross!


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Preparing for our next adventure – Walt Disney World

On Friday, we leave for Disney World.  This may be the toughest vacation yet to prepare for.  This is the first extremely long drive we will be taking with 6 kids, and tons of luggage, which brings its own set of logistical issues for our minivan.

But, more importantly, we have a strange week ahead of us.  We are at the beginning of Hurricane Sandy, which has been nicknamed “Frankenstorm.”  One news reporter said yesterday that this is a once in 250 year weather event.  Take that with a grain of salt, but probably means that we are living on borrowed time when it comes to power in the house.  And once the power goes out, BGE probably won’t restore for days.

So, we’re trying to prepare what we can today, Monday, in case we completely lose power and the ability to do laundry.

Wednesday is Halloween.  So, we need to prepare for it.  Six costumes for the kids, and some candy to hand out.  We think we have what we need; we better, because stores won’t be open for the next two days.  Oh, to top it off, Marcia has school on Wednesday, so she needs to study and won’t be here for trick or treating.  And she has a test on Friday.  And Elizabeth has a book report due on Friday, and the creation of a pop up book.

We’re all cooped up in the house to ride out the storm.  I’m hoping for the best, and that no trees fall and cause damage that we can’t deal with before Friday.  Because we’re leaving Friday no matter what.

909 miles to Disney World, half a tank of gas, six kids in the car, it’s raining, and I’m wearing sunglasses.  Hit it!


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My First 5k

Two days ago, I ran my first 5k.  I finished in 30 minutes!  My sister got an award because she finished second in her age group.  I was the second eight year old!  It was really cool to  run with my mom and with my friends, Cecelia Pell and Josie Hahn.  I really wish I got a award like my dad and my sister.  Also, it would be really cool if I saw you run the turkey trot.  And that’s my first time running a 5k.


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Monster Dash 2012

5k resultsResults pg. 2Winnersfun runNoah and Topher with their medalspre race

Monster Dash 2012, a set on Flickr.

Saturday morning was great for the Kennedys. Lot of accomplishments all around.

Marcia ran the 5k, the first she had ever run.  And the first distance run since before Jack was born.

Eden ran her first 5k. She did awesome! She finished 2nd among 8 year olds, and finished ahead of a ton of 9, 10 and 11 year olds.

Noah trucked on the fun run. He finished 2nd on the fun run. And man that boy was running.

Liz ran with her old man, and with two of her friends, Molly and Mackenzie. The display of sportsmanship and competition between the three of them was awesome. They finished within 2 seconds of each other, and won their age group. Most impressive was their time, 23:20.

And, of course, I was only 2 seconds behind them. It garnered me 3rd place among 30-39 year olds.

I’m so proud of the family for the way in which they compete.


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3:33

I just read a note from Dana Blair.  I’ve been getting pretty stressed lately about sports… well, not just sports, but lacrosse in particular.  I always try to do the right thing for the kids, create the best environment for the kids to play in, and make sure that they have a positive and supportive environment where they can make mistakes, and learn, and grow, and develop into self-confident young adults with drive and conviction.  In my quest to provide this environment, there are always obstacles, politics in sports, adults pushing kids in certain directions, or parents acting very selfishly for their own kid’s interests without regard for the best interests of every other child in their community.  And I’ve put myself in a leadership position in a club organization where parents trust my father and me.  I like the position we are in, because it allows us some freedom to do the right thing.  And we care.

Lately, there have been many pressures.  And there have been many politics.  The landscape of youth lacrosse is changing, and our club is in the forefront of the change.  And we have been trying to advise parents within our club to make very responsible decisions for their children’s best interests.  There are many folks in leadership positions within different lacrosse organizations that are not taking into account how much pressure is being put on the children in their communities.  They are more concerned with winning, with being competitive, with keeping their registration numbers up, with putting their foot down, with creating policies, etc, to stop and think about what is best for the 10 year old girl that they are going to put their foot down on.

Issues like this weigh very heavily on me.  And I have been losing sleep lately worrying about doing the right thing when the path is not always clear, or when I think the path is clear but it might take other parents longer to gain the perspective that I have to understand the effect of the path that is clear to me already.

Well, on one of the issues that has been weighing on me lately, I had a breakthrough.  It came from one of the parents on my team.  And when I shared the breakthrough along to some of the other parents on the team, I got a note back from Dana Blair, which included the following:

Please don’t be stressed–thanks for everything you do!  You are a great dad and coach to all of our girls 🙂

After I read this note, I felt a sense of calm within me.  And I looked at my clock, and it read 3:33.  For some who are close to me, you know the significance of the time.  I seem to have all of my divine interventions at 3:33.  For years, I believe that my grandfather has come to me at that time, and has saved me, time and again.  And not just to me, but I believe that he comes to Marcia, and to Bobby, and to my father at the same time.

I love you Grandpop


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Luray and Shenandoah

Marcia and I decided to take the kids on an adventure on Saturday.  We planned the trip for a few days prior, but we didn’t tell them where we were going.  We kept it a surprise.  We only told them what to prepare: a change of clothes, a sweatshirt or jacket, cameras, shoes/socks and flip flops, a bathing suit and binoculars.  The trip we had planned was a day trip to Shenandoah Valley.  The kids asked fo days, “Are we camping?” and “Are we staying overnight?”.

We got the kids out of bed around 5:30AM on Saturday the 22nd.  We left the house at 7:30.  Our first stop was at Luray Caverns.  None of us had been there before, and we were not disappointed.  We spent about an hour touring the caverns.  Then we spent time in the Garden Maze.  And the kids mined for gems and minerals in the sluice.  We left in time for lunch.

I thought it would be good to picnic at a scenic point in the Shenandoah National Park.  We were planning to drive Skyline Drive and see the sites.  It was so cloudy, we could barely see 10 feet in fron t of the car.  So, we had a picnic in the clouds.  And then we all experienced our first toilet pit along the Appalachian trail.

We took a hike down Dark Hollow Falls Trail.  Luke on my back and Jack strapped to Marcia, we all hiked down to the falls.  It was a beautiful sight.  THe kids played in the falls at the bottom, and then we hiked all the way back up to the top of the trail.

But when we got to the car, our adventures weren’t over.  The car was very low on gas, so we consulted with our maps.  Found the closest gas station, several miles south, and gassed up.  Phew.  We made it.  It was quite an adventure.  And we caught the bug on adventures!