Six With Sticks

by Six Kennedy kids and their parents


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The perfect Christmas tree adventure

Jack selects the perfect tree

Jack and I went to a farm. It was shaping up to be a fun and normal Christmas adventure. We scoured the fields for the best tree. And Jack found the perfect one.

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Jack cutting down the tree

Once he selected the tree, he got out the saw and went to work. He had to get really low in order to cut the tree at the trunk. Lots of cutting. Again, a perfectly normal Christmas activity.

Job well done. Tree was down.

The tree was cut down, and we were ready to go. We got a cart and loaded up the tree on the cart. What fun! We were having a great time, just father and son. All alone in the field in the middle of nowhere. No other people in sight for about a mile. When all of a sudden …

“Gimme that tree little boy”

A clown was right next to us. We did not see where he came from, but Jack thinks he came from the woods. He was hideously laughing and breathing heavy and telling us he was going to take that tree back to the woods.

Jack pulled that tree as fast as he could

We started to run, but Jack was afraid the clown would steal the tree. So he picked it up and started pulling it up the hill, so fast. We never looked back. We heard some weird voice, “I’m going to get that tree little boy.” We turned back and saw a whole group of clowns with knives so we ran as fast as cheetahs up the hill.

When we got back to the parking lot, we put the tree in the truck and drove away. Jack looked back and saw the angry clown gang chasing us. And then we finally got home and set the tree up.

What a perfect Christmas adventure!


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Scout’s Honor

Luke and Jack recently joined the Cub Scout Pack 306. I was in Pack 306 when I was a kid. I am really enjoying our new tradition together. We go every Wednesday to Den meetings. The boys like their den leaders, and they are being taught some valuable lessons.

There are so many institutions these days which are afraid to teach kids morality or a value system. Sports and school leave so many gaps. And I am really excited how Cub Scouts is providing some cool opportunities for them.

Their first camping trip with the Cub Scouts was at the state park near our house. The boys started by putting up the tent. They had this down pat. They got excited when their friends started showing up. Pretty soon, the party started and they went with their Dens on hikes. Jack is a Wolf. Luke is a Bear.

After their hike, they learned different things, like splitting wood properly, tying knots, plant identification, and fire safety. Then they cooked their own dinner on the fire. They learned how to clean their mess kit. And then each of their dens did a skit at the camp fire.

The three of us slept at night in our tent. And in the morning, we cooked and ate breakfast. Cleaned up the camp and went home.

Everybody pitches in. And the people are generally really nice. I am excited to be there having these experiences with my boys.

 


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Coba – Mayan adventure

On our trip to Playa del Carmen, Marcia and I took an excursion to Coba.  I have long been interested to see the remains of the Mayan culture up close.  I found an excursion which combined Mayan ruins with zip lining and other experiences.  So, we went for it.

The morning started early when Paco, our guide, picked us up at 7:40.  It was an hour and a half ride out to Coba.  We learned a brief history of the Mayan culture.  We were told that the Mayans migrated to this area of Coba from a more southern region.  This area is mostly limestone, so does not have much soil for farming, but is surrounded by freshwater cenotes.  It is suspected that this area was deserted in about 600A.D. due to a 20 year drought.

Coba remained undiscovered until the 1920s or 1930s.  It was at this time that Wrigley had come into the area and was pressing the resources in the land for material to make gum.  As they pushed farther into the jungle, the Mayan ruins were discovered.

In the days of the Mayans, the commoners were farmers, and lived in small homes made of wood and thatch.  The more elite families had homes built on top of raised surfaces built out of limestone.  Temples were also erected out of limestone.  These were to perform rituals, mostly sacrifices to please the gods, and ask for rain.  We were able to view a few of these, and some courts they built to play a ritualistic “sport” which they also used to determine common folk to sacrifice to the gods.

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My Mayan princess and me atop the Nohoch Mul Pyramid.  This is the tallest Mayan temple in all of Mexico.  We hiked here from the smaller temple which can be seen in the background among the jungle trees.

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It is a tough climb to the top.  It is 129 steps, and they are pretty slick.  Even tougher going down!

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Beautiful scenery

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We came.  We saw.  We kicked its ass!

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Photo of the Nohoch Mul Pyramid.

We hiked about a mile through the jungle to reach this pyramid.  Then climbed and descended it pretty quickly.  All set to hike back to our starting point, and Carlos, from teh Mayan Uber, pulled up on his tricycle.  5 dollars senor.  I did not need to be asked twice.  Sold.

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Carlos speeding us through the Coba jungle.  We passed spider monkeys in the trees and kept going.

 

We made it back to a small village just outside of the ruins.  There were several little shops.  We were impressed with their craftsmanship, and the authenticity of the Mayan crafts.  After selecting a number of items, we learned that they had no electricity.  It had been out for more than a day because of rain.  With not enough cash, and out of time, we were attempting to figure out what one item to purchase, when a fan came on.  Which meant power!  Cha-ching!  Back to shopping for the kids.  A couple knives for the boys.  A Mayan calendar for Liz.  A turtle for Maggie inlaid with lapis lazuli.  And a ceremonial mask.  Checkout and back to the van for the next adventure.  But not before I ran into these guys by the banos.

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Once in our van, we drove another half hour further into the Mayan territory.  We drove past people living in very meager living conditions.  Then we got to our stop to begin the second half of our adventure.  We put everything in lockers except shoes and bathing suits, and started a hike through the jungle.  Our first stop was to put on harnesses and helmets.  Thunder rolling in the background, we climbed up to a high platform over a lagoon to find a zip line.  This has been on my bucket list for over a year!

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We hiked a little farther to another lagoon.  Now the rain followed the thunder and it began to rain pretty hard.  Another platform, and another zip line, this time through the rain!

So much fun.  We hiked next to Cenotes Jaguar.  It is so named because the ceiling of the cenotes is shaped like the eyes and mouth of a jaguar.

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Holy tan line, Batman!

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A kiss before we descend into the Cenotes Jaguar.  Considered the Mayan Underworld.

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Paddling around in tubes.  60 feet to the bottom of the cenotes.  I dived down into the clean water.  This was before I realized the number of creatures living in the water!

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There were two ways out of the underground cave.  Mayan elevator or the ladder.

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We both opted for the slippery ladder, while the rain came through the opening at the top of the cenotes on us.

It was a good workout climbing out.  Time to rest.  We thought.  Nope, time to kayak across the lagoon in order to get lunch.  We were instructed to avoid the crocodiles.

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No mas crocodilos!

It was a great day.  I knocked two things off my bucket list.  And really enjoyed spending time with my beautiful wife.  Shirtless all day, I still did not do anything about that tan line because it rained on us for so long.  I can’t wait for tomorrow.


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There and Back Again: A Big Red Tale

Snooze. Beep Beep. Snooze. One eye open. 3:33. Good sign, gotta get up. I was taking the kids today on an adventure. I didn’t tell anyone where we were headed, including Marcia. We got them loaded in the car and we were off by 4:30. I was taking them somewhere they had never been. And I hadn’t been back to Cornell in 17 years.

I put over 4 hours behind the wheel before anyone woke up. Then they were up the last hour of the drive. We pulled into Manos Diner in Ithaca around 9:30 for a little breakfast before seeing the sites.

Manos Diner - first stop in Ithaca

Manos Diner – first stop in Ithaca

First stop had to be Schoellkopf Field. I took the kids out onto the turf and they loved it. Noah started sprinting from one end of the field to the other. Elizabeth and Eden starting running stadium stairs. I told them where the locker room was and showed them where coach Richie Moran took us all after each game for a post game party.

Six at Schoellkopf Field

Six at Schoellkopf Field

Love this Stadium and those stairs

Love this Stadium and those stairs

Hall for post game lacrosse gatherings

Hall for post game lacrosse gatherings

I was proud and excited to tell Marcia and the kids all about my days at Cornell. I showed them the slope and told them about Slope Day. I showed them where I sold daffodils for Daffodil Day, raising money for cancer research with my fraternity. I told them about the Hot Truck, and showed them my fraternity. My freshman dorm has been torn down and replaced with newer buildings. We walked through campus and I showed them the statues of Ezra Cornell and Andrew White. I showed them some of the libraries and where I had classes. We saw North Campus, and West Campus. We saw Collegetown – less bars than there used to be, and more Starbucks.

Marcia and the kids at Cornell

Marcia and the kids at Cornell

Cornell or Hogwarts?

Cornell or Hogwarts?

Fuertes Observatory

Fuertes Observatory

Legend has it that if a virgin crosses between the two statues at midnight, they will cross the quad and dance a jig.  The statues have never moved.

Legend has it that if a virgin crosses between the two statues at midnight, they will cross the quad and dance a jig. The statues have never moved.

Far Above Cayuga's Water

Far Above Cayuga’s Water

Looking down on West Campus - much different than when I went there

Looking down on West Campus – much different than when I went there

The kids loved seeing the plantation. We spent a good bit of time there exploring all of the trees. And we had a picnic late in the day, the last stop before heading home. As a student, I never really appreciated the plantation. I ran around and through it for lacrosse, but never had a picnic or took in the beauty of the place.

Newman Overlook at Cornell Plantations

Newman Overlook at Cornell Plantations

I love Luke in this picture

I love Luke in this picture

Picnic in Cornell Plantations

Picnic in Cornell Plantations

The main attraction had to be the gorges. All of the kids had lots of fun exploring the gorges. They ran along the paths to get to the gorges. Unfortunately, they weren’t allowed to swim. I was really disappointed in this, as I remember lots of people swimming there when I was a student. It is now an offense that you can be arrested for. Bummer. I still waded out into the waterfalls, but we decided against letting the kids do it.

Ithaca is Gorges

Ithaca is Gorges

Gorge above Beebe Lake

Gorge above Beebe Lake

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I found the spot where I jumped from the side of the gorge 20 years ago. I didn’t repeat the act, but was kind of impressed with how high I had jumped from. Young dumb and stupid is no way to go through life, Kennedy!

Where I jumped 20 years before

Where I jumped 20 years before

For me, this was a great trip. There were reasons that I left Cornell, and there were reasons why I put it in my past, and haven’t revisited it. It was great though to remember on this trip all of the joy I experienced at Cornell. All of the beauty of the place. And to share that with Marcia. And also with the kids.

It is an impressive and beautiful university. I wish I had appreciated it for all that it had to offer when I was a student, athlete and fraternity boy. There was so much that I didn’t do as a student, and wish I had been a bit more mature in those days. I am so grateful though for the experiences that I did have, and that I am able to share even glimpses of those experiences with my kids. It made me so proud that they were genuinely interested in the trip and my stories. Maybe one day one of them will be lucky enough to experience Cornell as a student.


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Liz heads to NYC

It is Elizabeth’s spring break, and she spent 3 days in New York with her godfather, Uncle Bob. While she was gone, we missed her very much. It was kind of sad on Monday night when she was not here with the rest of the family. And Tuesday night as well. And I got to work late on Wednesday because I wasn’t driving her to school. But I digress.

I dropped Liz at the bus station on Monday morning. She hopped on the bus very confidently and found her seat. She did not appear nervous or scared to be all alone on a bus to New York City. When she arrived, Uncle Bobby was waiting for her at the bus station and met her right at the bus.

Bobby gave her a whirlwind tour of New York. He took her to Central Park. Took her to the St. Patrick’s Day Parade. To Dylan’s Candy Bar. To the Museum of Natural History. To Serendipity. To Alice’s Tea Cup. And that was just the 1st day. On the second day, Rockefeller Center, ice skating, the Lego Store, the Empire State Building, $1 pizza like a real New Yorker, Macy’s and Broadway to see Matilda. A relatively lazy day on the 3rd day and she boarded a bus midday to come home.

I think this trip was good for both of them. It was exciting for Elizabeth. And she got to bond with her godfather, and he treated her very special. And I think also very good for Bob, who has had a rough year, and I think the pure relationship with Elizabeth was probably refreshing for him amidst the many relationships we have with adults that live behind so many facades. I talked with Bob after. He talked about how great of a kid Liz is and how conscientious she is. She wouldn’t let him buy her very many souvenirs. She saved candy from the first day and brought it home so that she could share it with her brothers and sisters. It was the first thing that she did when she walked in the door.

While Liz was in New York, we got to live vicariously through posts that Bobby put on Facebook. All of the posts were pictures of Liz in various spots in New York.

Liz ice skating at Rockefeller Plaza

Liz ice skating at Rockefeller Plaza


Liz in Central Park

Liz in Central Park


Liz at Dylan's Candy Bar

Liz at Dylan’s Candy Bar

When Liz got home, we got to hear her tell her story from her perspective. She to tell us about Dylan’s Candy Bar. She described it in so much detail. How all of the candy bar wrappers said Dylan’s Candy Bar. How the stairs had candy in them. And how there were huge gummy letters and they spelled their names out of the gummy letters. At the Lego store, she created a Lego Uncle Bobby. She talked about Matilda. And how there was a scene where the girl was tossed by her hair. Then she went on to explain that Uncle Bobby knows how these things work, and told her about how they used a dummy to throw the girl across the stage instead of throwing the real actress. She also told us about Bobby’s apartment. And how Uncle Bobby taught her to skate backwards – he was an ice hockey player in high school and learned to skate on ice hockey skates. Then she showed us all of her pictures, and it told the story through her eyes.

Bob teaching Liz to skate at Rockefeller Plaza

Bob teaching Liz to skate at Rockefeller Plaza

Uncle Bob at Serendipity

Uncle Bob at Serendipity


Bob and Liz, Rockefeller Center

Bob and Liz, Rockefeller Center

I am happy for Liz and for Bob. At the same time, it is kind of sad that their little trip together had to end. Liz misses her uncle. He really is something.

Super Uncle, Bob Kennedy, takes his niece to the top of the Empire State Building

Super Uncle, Bob Kennedy, takes his niece to the top of the Empire State Building


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Six with skis

Last night, we took a little trip up to Ski Liberty. None of the kids had ever been skiing before. And I hadn’t been skiing since before Marcia and I met, over 17 years ago. So, we piled the oldest 4 kids into the van and drove up there.

We started them off with a lesson.

Marcia - dropping off kids at Ski school

Marcia – dropping off kids at Ski school

Ready for ski school

Ready for ski school

Ready for some skiing

Ready for some skiing

Maggie loves skiing

The kids were off with their instructor and Marcia and I were able to take a few runs by ourselves. I took a few runs down the back side of the mountain by myself and was able to ski a Black Diamond before meeting back up with the kids. An hour lesson and they were doing great.

Maggie - hands on her knees, no poles

Maggie – hands on her knees, no poles

Eden - flying down that mountain

Eden – flying down that mountain

Liz - focused on her turns

Liz – focused on her turns

Noah - No fear

Noah – No fear

And then some night skiing as a family.

Having fun

Having fun

Kennedy gang at Ski Liberty

Kennedy gang at Ski Liberty

We mostly stuck to the bunny hill.

I love how comfortable the kids all were. They got on the chair lifts by themselves, and were calling to each other from the chair lifts and waving to each other on the mountain. It was really cool. Before the night was over, I took Liz over to a bit faster hill for one last run.

It was cool that I remembered how to ski after all these years. And it was interesting that Marcia and I had never skied before. She kept remarking that she never knew how good of a skiier I was. Interesting that we have spent all these years with each other and there are still sometimes things that we don’t know about each other.

Very cool night. They all wanted to do it again. Eden wanted to spend the night. On the way home, we stopped at IHOP for breakfast at night. This morning, with 7 inches of snow on the ground, I took Liz to an early morning bus to NYC to spend a few days with her godfather. The rest of us have a snow day 🙂


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Preparing for our next adventure – Walt Disney World

On Friday, we leave for Disney World.  This may be the toughest vacation yet to prepare for.  This is the first extremely long drive we will be taking with 6 kids, and tons of luggage, which brings its own set of logistical issues for our minivan.

But, more importantly, we have a strange week ahead of us.  We are at the beginning of Hurricane Sandy, which has been nicknamed “Frankenstorm.”  One news reporter said yesterday that this is a once in 250 year weather event.  Take that with a grain of salt, but probably means that we are living on borrowed time when it comes to power in the house.  And once the power goes out, BGE probably won’t restore for days.

So, we’re trying to prepare what we can today, Monday, in case we completely lose power and the ability to do laundry.

Wednesday is Halloween.  So, we need to prepare for it.  Six costumes for the kids, and some candy to hand out.  We think we have what we need; we better, because stores won’t be open for the next two days.  Oh, to top it off, Marcia has school on Wednesday, so she needs to study and won’t be here for trick or treating.  And she has a test on Friday.  And Elizabeth has a book report due on Friday, and the creation of a pop up book.

We’re all cooped up in the house to ride out the storm.  I’m hoping for the best, and that no trees fall and cause damage that we can’t deal with before Friday.  Because we’re leaving Friday no matter what.

909 miles to Disney World, half a tank of gas, six kids in the car, it’s raining, and I’m wearing sunglasses.  Hit it!